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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 690698" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>That is how my son feels too, SWOT. The things he believes are snake mean. He acts with such conviction that they must be true, for him. I too find myself in that place where everything goes silent. Like I cannot put the pieces of how I feel about him together with how he feels about me.</p><p></p><p>I feel ashamed, that he could feel about me this way. </p><p></p><p>How awful it must have been for you to stay there when your son spoke those words to you in public. You must love him very much. </p><p></p><p>The church he belongs to is a wicked, hate filled thing.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I have that feeling where my son is concerned, too. Whatever relationship I believed we would have, somehow, we have this one, instead. I don't mean somehow like I have no clue there was anything wrong. I mean somehow in the sense that my son seems determined to feel as he feels.</p><p></p><p>He believes himself to be correct.</p><p></p><p>It's shocking, to think about it. Like something priceless has been stolen, and I've just discovered the emptiness. </p><p></p><p>And of course, something has.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I am sorry, SWOT.</p><p></p><p>That you had to read such a thing. Wouldn't you think a Christian church would have required a kinder stance from a son to his mother? I've read that cults are like that, regarding family. They do it to isolate the members, the better to control them. But how awful, for the families.</p><p></p><p>Really, the more we look into these incidents, the more awful and hateful they show themselves to be.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you threw the list away.</p><p></p><p>You should have burned it. </p><p></p><p>Maybe, you could burn such a list in effigy now, and light a white candle for yourself. That was cold, and unbelievably cruel, what your son and his stiff-faced wife did, SWOT. I am thinking about lighting white candles for myself, too, regarding everything that has happened with my children, and to me. I would do it over a period of seven mornings.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>This is a very good way to see our sons, SWOT. </p><p></p><p>And ourselves.</p><p></p><p>Thank you.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 690698, member: 17461"] That is how my son feels too, SWOT. The things he believes are snake mean. He acts with such conviction that they must be true, for him. I too find myself in that place where everything goes silent. Like I cannot put the pieces of how I feel about him together with how he feels about me. I feel ashamed, that he could feel about me this way. How awful it must have been for you to stay there when your son spoke those words to you in public. You must love him very much. The church he belongs to is a wicked, hate filled thing. I have that feeling where my son is concerned, too. Whatever relationship I believed we would have, somehow, we have this one, instead. I don't mean somehow like I have no clue there was anything wrong. I mean somehow in the sense that my son seems determined to feel as he feels. He believes himself to be correct. It's shocking, to think about it. Like something priceless has been stolen, and I've just discovered the emptiness. And of course, something has. I am sorry, SWOT. That you had to read such a thing. Wouldn't you think a Christian church would have required a kinder stance from a son to his mother? I've read that cults are like that, regarding family. They do it to isolate the members, the better to control them. But how awful, for the families. Really, the more we look into these incidents, the more awful and hateful they show themselves to be. I am glad you threw the list away. You should have burned it. Maybe, you could burn such a list in effigy now, and light a white candle for yourself. That was cold, and unbelievably cruel, what your son and his stiff-faced wife did, SWOT. I am thinking about lighting white candles for myself, too, regarding everything that has happened with my children, and to me. I would do it over a period of seven mornings. This is a very good way to see our sons, SWOT. And ourselves. Thank you. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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