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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 690770" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm overwhelmed by the kindness and support I always get here. I can't talk about this to most people. I don't want to. And I don't have it in the forefront of my mind anymore. When I actually do write about it, like here, I am relieved it is over. I don't need that hate in my life, although I am sure he thinks it is not hate. Or cruelty.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Albatross, this mediator was probably as flustered as me. She wanted to help. I had talked to her in advance. I am glad she didn't stop if. I wanted to get to know the man who had grown from the child. Nothing helped me get over his shun like seeing the real him.</p><p></p><p>I am glad it happened the way it did. He was so vile that it was hard to feel like he was the child I raised or somebody I still wanted in my family.</p><p></p><p>His shun included all his siblings too and his father for some time.</p><p></p><p>Clearly he has attachment issues. I doubt he is properly attached to his wife and kids either. I know he will expect a lot from those kids...and they'd better embrace his idea of Christianity.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 690770, member: 1550"] I'm overwhelmed by the kindness and support I always get here. I can't talk about this to most people. I don't want to. And I don't have it in the forefront of my mind anymore. When I actually do write about it, like here, I am relieved it is over. I don't need that hate in my life, although I am sure he thinks it is not hate. Or cruelty. Albatross, this mediator was probably as flustered as me. She wanted to help. I had talked to her in advance. I am glad she didn't stop if. I wanted to get to know the man who had grown from the child. Nothing helped me get over his shun like seeing the real him. I am glad it happened the way it did. He was so vile that it was hard to feel like he was the child I raised or somebody I still wanted in my family. His shun included all his siblings too and his father for some time. Clearly he has attachment issues. I doubt he is properly attached to his wife and kids either. I know he will expect a lot from those kids...and they'd better embrace his idea of Christianity. [/QUOTE]
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