My daughter in law wants a divorce from my son. She is out every night and Grandson asks "Where's Mommy?" Last night she came home drunk at 3am and was still drunk in the morning. She must have driven herself home drunk. She never watches Grandson anymore. Son does! He has an attorney who specializes in men, but still says women usually get residential custody. Oh, yeah. daughter in law took Grandson's birthday money and stashed it away from herself to try to get a down payment on an apartment. daughter in law has always been very ditzy about money and has caused a bankruptcy. I am really bummed out that my son will probably just get visitation. Who k nows what daughter in law will expose the little guy to? Her sister is divorced and is (sorry for the word) a tramp. The last time my son talked to sister's little girl, who is nine, the girl told him, "Mommy is in a hotel with a man." daughter in law worships her sister and tries to emulate her. I think judges should pay attention to who is doing the most caregiving when they decide on residential custody. I did tell my son to take notes and hand them to his lawyer, who he will see again on Tuesday. I'm so frustrated and upset for my little sweetpea. I'd love to hve them here, but neither of them is allowed to take grandson out of state right now.