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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 20022" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>Alice I am truly sorry for what you must be going through, I can not imagine my daughters in that situation, how heartwrenching. </p><p></p><p>I go back and forth on the other side, my brother is the difficult child who is the ***hole, boyfriend, absent father, abuser... his girlfiend will call me only when things are really bad and poor her heart out about all the horrible things he does to them... </p><p>This has been going on for over 10 years!!! They have 2 children and she has filed 2 different restraining orders against him... he has choked her when she was pregnant he has cheated on her and is an alcoholic and drug addict. Along with whatever undiagnosed disorders he has. </p><p></p><p>But I have spent so much time with this lady and she is beautiful and smart yet for some reason she keeps going back... she thinks she needs him. Even before they had kids, I think she thought/thinks she can fix him. The whole why am I not good enough for him. </p><p>So I think the others are correct in the helping her believe in herself, this is the one thing that stand out with my brother's girlfriend, she has so much, yet she does not realize it, she was adopted and has lost most of her family. </p><p>I am just there for her when she needs me as well I have had to step back...</p><p>I know it is not the same... </p><p></p><p>Hang in there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 20022, member: 3155"] Alice I am truly sorry for what you must be going through, I can not imagine my daughters in that situation, how heartwrenching. I go back and forth on the other side, my brother is the difficult child who is the ***hole, boyfriend, absent father, abuser... his girlfiend will call me only when things are really bad and poor her heart out about all the horrible things he does to them... This has been going on for over 10 years!!! They have 2 children and she has filed 2 different restraining orders against him... he has choked her when she was pregnant he has cheated on her and is an alcoholic and drug addict. Along with whatever undiagnosed disorders he has. But I have spent so much time with this lady and she is beautiful and smart yet for some reason she keeps going back... she thinks she needs him. Even before they had kids, I think she thought/thinks she can fix him. The whole why am I not good enough for him. So I think the others are correct in the helping her believe in herself, this is the one thing that stand out with my brother's girlfriend, she has so much, yet she does not realize it, she was adopted and has lost most of her family. I am just there for her when she needs me as well I have had to step back... I know it is not the same... Hang in there. [/QUOTE]
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