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I'm done....why does she make it so easy?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 702143" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so sorry you are having to endure this. You might consider a restraining order or no contact order if her abuse doesn't stop. Hopefully she will have a short attention span, but she seems to do this on some scale fairly regularly. I would 100% leave her to her own devices and resources. I am glad people are seeing through her and she may have some consequences for her actions. I hope they are enough to make her stop defrauding people, but I doubt it. Some lessons are only learned the hardest way, and some people are just incapable of learning them. </p><p></p><p>Do something nice for yourself. Give yourself a reward for detaching, because that truly will be the only way to keep your sanity throughout whatever games she chooses to play. Let her worry about her own legal problems,and her own mental health. With borderline, she cannot be helped unless/until she wants to be helped. And why would she? She gets ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL sorts of sympathy and excitement from what she is doing, plus a mostly free party across a foreign country. She likely figures she can just leave if the consequences get to be too much, so why worry about the law? If she even thinks that far ahead.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 702143, member: 1233"] I am so sorry you are having to endure this. You might consider a restraining order or no contact order if her abuse doesn't stop. Hopefully she will have a short attention span, but she seems to do this on some scale fairly regularly. I would 100% leave her to her own devices and resources. I am glad people are seeing through her and she may have some consequences for her actions. I hope they are enough to make her stop defrauding people, but I doubt it. Some lessons are only learned the hardest way, and some people are just incapable of learning them. Do something nice for yourself. Give yourself a reward for detaching, because that truly will be the only way to keep your sanity throughout whatever games she chooses to play. Let her worry about her own legal problems,and her own mental health. With borderline, she cannot be helped unless/until she wants to be helped. And why would she? She gets ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL sorts of sympathy and excitement from what she is doing, plus a mostly free party across a foreign country. She likely figures she can just leave if the consequences get to be too much, so why worry about the law? If she even thinks that far ahead. [/QUOTE]
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