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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 691110" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I suggest leaving your son out of it. He is an adult and has a right not to get involved in the drama by being ok with everyone. I believe that telling him you feel betrayed would make him uncomfortable and push him away. Contrary to what some people are told in therapy, of which I've been in most of my life, it isn't always good to emote all the things we feel. Your son is not betraying you. He is making a decision to stay out of it and in my opinion should not be put in the middle. Don't let your daughter be that huge elephant in the room who can come between you and others. She is only as powerful as you let her be.</p><p></p><p>Try to remember she is just one person of millions...and rather pathetic at that. Don't let her rule your life. I know you love her. We all love our kids. But we don't have to like them and cower before their might. It's our decision in the end</p><p></p><p>I'm wearing a cool shirt that says "Stay calm and let go." Take care of YOU.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 691110, member: 1550"] I suggest leaving your son out of it. He is an adult and has a right not to get involved in the drama by being ok with everyone. I believe that telling him you feel betrayed would make him uncomfortable and push him away. Contrary to what some people are told in therapy, of which I've been in most of my life, it isn't always good to emote all the things we feel. Your son is not betraying you. He is making a decision to stay out of it and in my opinion should not be put in the middle. Don't let your daughter be that huge elephant in the room who can come between you and others. She is only as powerful as you let her be. Try to remember she is just one person of millions...and rather pathetic at that. Don't let her rule your life. I know you love her. We all love our kids. But we don't have to like them and cower before their might. It's our decision in the end I'm wearing a cool shirt that says "Stay calm and let go." Take care of YOU. [/QUOTE]
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