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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 633931" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>You are not alone. There have been times when I actually thought it would be so much easier for me if Cory was dead than to have to go on with the idiocy that life was with him in it. There was just so much trauma and drama. </p><p></p><p>Towards the last few months before we moved out and the first several months after we moved in here I refused to even speak to him. My oldest son and even his father tried to force the issue with me. I would slam the phone down, refuse to talk, walk out of rooms, leave the house. I had stated my conditions about what it would take for me to begin talking to him again and I wasnt budging. It wasnt that I was mad, I was disappointed and I was just so done with me being the one trying so hard to fix things. I was done. I had no interest in yelling at him, telling him what to do or any of that sort of thing. I knew he knew. I didnt need to tell him. I also didnt want to hear about him. Slowly I have started talking to him for short periods of time. mostly when I take him to our psychiatrist appts. I have only been back to our other house 3 times since we left. Tony goes almost every weekend. Personally I think we are sending mixed messages but I cant do anything about that. </p><p></p><p>I think we go through stages about what we can deal with. If at this point you simply cant deal with even thinking about him, thats fine.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 633931, member: 1514"] You are not alone. There have been times when I actually thought it would be so much easier for me if Cory was dead than to have to go on with the idiocy that life was with him in it. There was just so much trauma and drama. Towards the last few months before we moved out and the first several months after we moved in here I refused to even speak to him. My oldest son and even his father tried to force the issue with me. I would slam the phone down, refuse to talk, walk out of rooms, leave the house. I had stated my conditions about what it would take for me to begin talking to him again and I wasnt budging. It wasnt that I was mad, I was disappointed and I was just so done with me being the one trying so hard to fix things. I was done. I had no interest in yelling at him, telling him what to do or any of that sort of thing. I knew he knew. I didnt need to tell him. I also didnt want to hear about him. Slowly I have started talking to him for short periods of time. mostly when I take him to our psychiatrist appts. I have only been back to our other house 3 times since we left. Tony goes almost every weekend. Personally I think we are sending mixed messages but I cant do anything about that. I think we go through stages about what we can deal with. If at this point you simply cant deal with even thinking about him, thats fine. [/QUOTE]
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