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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 634032" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>As I let go of family of origin issues, the place I found to stand had nothing much to do with their badness or shortcomings. I did need to plumb the depths of this or that incident for residual anger. But there came a day when I understood that the problem there, the ultimate, rock bottom toxicity, had nothing to do with them and everything to do with who I had to be to have them in my life.</p><p></p><p>And all at once, with that realization, I was able to love and let go.</p><p></p><p>Could something similar be happening with you, Echo?</p><p></p><p>Suddenly, I could see the patterns, the payoffs, the hurt and confusion.</p><p></p><p>But I didn't want to be that person, anymore.</p><p></p><p>Not even for them, though I love them so much.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 634032, member: 17461"] As I let go of family of origin issues, the place I found to stand had nothing much to do with their badness or shortcomings. I did need to plumb the depths of this or that incident for residual anger. But there came a day when I understood that the problem there, the ultimate, rock bottom toxicity, had nothing to do with them and everything to do with who I had to be to have them in my life. And all at once, with that realization, I was able to love and let go. Could something similar be happening with you, Echo? Suddenly, I could see the patterns, the payoffs, the hurt and confusion. But I didn't want to be that person, anymore. Not even for them, though I love them so much. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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