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<blockquote data-quote="LauraH" data-source="post: 759676" data-attributes="member: 22877"><p>That is a real possibility. Maybe likely, maybe not, but definitely something I have to accept as a possibility. Two years ago he blocked me on Facebook and his phone and told me he was cutting me out of his life "for the most part"...turns out that "for the most part" was an asterisk meaning "I will sill call you if I need you to do something for me." And within two days he was texting me asking me to help him get to work. (I firmly said absolutely not, you are on your own. </p><p></p><p>This time, although he seemingly has cut me off yet again, it's entirely different. I was teetering on the brink of completely removing myself from his life he yet again failed to follow through with his plans and good intentions. As I was weighing the benefits of "no contact" versus the worries of not knowing at some point if he was alive or dead, he reached out to me one last time and more or less cut me off again, but he also made my decision for me. I don't know when or if I will hear from him again, but I also don't know how I would respond when/if the time comes that he wants to communicate with me. I do believe that if he were to call or text me over the next several days I would not answer the phone or respond to texts.</p><p></p><p>Whether this is a permanent sad state of affairs or how everything will play out, only time will tell. But as heartbroken as I am feeling this morning, I am feeling much stronger thinking about the possibility that my son might be lost to me forever than I ever have been before. I can do this. I must do this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LauraH, post: 759676, member: 22877"] That is a real possibility. Maybe likely, maybe not, but definitely something I have to accept as a possibility. Two years ago he blocked me on Facebook and his phone and told me he was cutting me out of his life "for the most part"...turns out that "for the most part" was an asterisk meaning "I will sill call you if I need you to do something for me." And within two days he was texting me asking me to help him get to work. (I firmly said absolutely not, you are on your own. This time, although he seemingly has cut me off yet again, it's entirely different. I was teetering on the brink of completely removing myself from his life he yet again failed to follow through with his plans and good intentions. As I was weighing the benefits of "no contact" versus the worries of not knowing at some point if he was alive or dead, he reached out to me one last time and more or less cut me off again, but he also made my decision for me. I don't know when or if I will hear from him again, but I also don't know how I would respond when/if the time comes that he wants to communicate with me. I do believe that if he were to call or text me over the next several days I would not answer the phone or respond to texts. Whether this is a permanent sad state of affairs or how everything will play out, only time will tell. But as heartbroken as I am feeling this morning, I am feeling much stronger thinking about the possibility that my son might be lost to me forever than I ever have been before. I can do this. I must do this. [/QUOTE]
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