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I'm so stupid. It's supposed to be when you know better, you do better.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 674812" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If he is a drug addict, that's why they do it.</p><p></p><p>I'd call CPS. That baby needs to be removed from your son's lack of care. Where is the mother???? If you want to get custody yourself, you need a lawyer. Your son is unfit. Just threatening to sleep in the car with this baby shows it. It is one thing to let a grown child destruct. We can't stop them. But in my opinion it IS up to us to at least try to save the baby, even if that means he goes to foster care or we have to fight our own child for custody. If neither parent is fit, you owe it to the baby to keep him safe, no matter how badly it ticks off your son and his ex-girlfriend or your daughter. A baby will NOT change your son. And hasn't done so. To me the right thing to do...the only thing to do, if it were me...is to report them both as unfit and let professionals take over. If you enable, it won't help your grandson at all. He needs to be in a safe environment with sane people.</p><p></p><p>Sister will do what sister wants to do. You can't control any of your grown kids.</p><p></p><p>I would not fret over why your son is disrespectful until after CPS is called and the baby is safe.</p><p></p><p>Hugs for your hurting heart. Good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 674812, member: 1550"] If he is a drug addict, that's why they do it. I'd call CPS. That baby needs to be removed from your son's lack of care. Where is the mother???? If you want to get custody yourself, you need a lawyer. Your son is unfit. Just threatening to sleep in the car with this baby shows it. It is one thing to let a grown child destruct. We can't stop them. But in my opinion it IS up to us to at least try to save the baby, even if that means he goes to foster care or we have to fight our own child for custody. If neither parent is fit, you owe it to the baby to keep him safe, no matter how badly it ticks off your son and his ex-girlfriend or your daughter. A baby will NOT change your son. And hasn't done so. To me the right thing to do...the only thing to do, if it were me...is to report them both as unfit and let professionals take over. If you enable, it won't help your grandson at all. He needs to be in a safe environment with sane people. Sister will do what sister wants to do. You can't control any of your grown kids. I would not fret over why your son is disrespectful until after CPS is called and the baby is safe. Hugs for your hurting heart. Good luck! [/QUOTE]
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