and frustrated. We had difficult child's IEP today after school. We didn't finish. I'm feeling like we're getting nowhere. They want to take out the language saying he needs direct individual instruction because our district doesn't allow one on ones to be written into IEPs. I will post in Special Education but I thought they couldn't do that if that is what he needs. We didn't finish because two people (school psychologist and Occupational Therapist (OT) person) that husband (and I agree with him) really wants to be there had to leave. We didn't even get to revising his BIP and I was really hoping to address that. We did talk about some strategies they can use in the meantime to help when difficult child is angry. Looks like we won't meet for at least another two weeks. All of this advocating and difficult child has been such a PITA lately. Yesterday he was so mad about a consequence that he headbutted me when I was trying to get something away he was trying to destroy. His headbutt gave me a fat lip but thankfully the swelling went down with ice. After the meeting where we were advcoating like crazy he was a major grouch. Honestly sometimes I just want to runaway!