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<blockquote data-quote="Sooz" data-source="post: 678387" data-attributes="member: 20015"><p>It's hard not to be so mad to want to destroy the things they have bought with your money. I remember one late night I went into his room and slapped his face. Put my body up to him face to face with my finger in his face screaming. I lost it.</p><p>My husband is going thru same cycle I have. I believe there is a cycle for this behavior for someone going through it.</p><p>Therapist told me to tell him to take responsibility by deciding with us what consequences will be.</p><p>I seriously don't know what they should be....I'm working on deciding what it will be.</p><p>My husband decided the stuff he's recently purchased xbox is ours till the items are returned.</p><p>He recently bought 4 wheels for his car supposedly with money he got from selling stuff. He earned a little money from working with his dad. So his dad said first condequence he will take a wheel right then till things got returned and money back in our account.</p><p>My son is saying mean stuff to me behind his dad's back. He called me a b*tch. He said I threw him under bus by telling. I told him I don't care anymore I warned him I was telling his dad in the year of 2016. My new years resolution was to stop covering up his actions. I told him I don't care if he loves me anymore I can't live like this and it's killing me. I told him he can hate me. I explained that it makes it easier to do what needs to be done. Of course he turned around and said he still loves me he just didn't understand why I told on him. He's a master manipulator. You all on this forum have given me strength to stand up and not take it anymore.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sooz, post: 678387, member: 20015"] It's hard not to be so mad to want to destroy the things they have bought with your money. I remember one late night I went into his room and slapped his face. Put my body up to him face to face with my finger in his face screaming. I lost it. My husband is going thru same cycle I have. I believe there is a cycle for this behavior for someone going through it. Therapist told me to tell him to take responsibility by deciding with us what consequences will be. I seriously don't know what they should be....I'm working on deciding what it will be. My husband decided the stuff he's recently purchased xbox is ours till the items are returned. He recently bought 4 wheels for his car supposedly with money he got from selling stuff. He earned a little money from working with his dad. So his dad said first condequence he will take a wheel right then till things got returned and money back in our account. My son is saying mean stuff to me behind his dad's back. He called me a b*tch. He said I threw him under bus by telling. I told him I don't care anymore I warned him I was telling his dad in the year of 2016. My new years resolution was to stop covering up his actions. I told him I don't care if he loves me anymore I can't live like this and it's killing me. I told him he can hate me. I explained that it makes it easier to do what needs to be done. Of course he turned around and said he still loves me he just didn't understand why I told on him. He's a master manipulator. You all on this forum have given me strength to stand up and not take it anymore. [/QUOTE]
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