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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 710410" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This is so simple, this situation, yet at the same time so impossibly complex.</p><p></p><p>I agree with Cheerwyn and Megan. I believe that this situation mandates action. I am a mandated reporter. Maybe it is because of this, that I see this as black and white. But it feels to me like we are watching somebody do harm. It is not only Ferb. It is all of her other victims. Because everybody is her victim.</p><p></p><p>This woman is a predator. She consumes everybody. She walks on everybody. She violates boundaries. She dirties everything. She eats off plates...because that is who she is.</p><p></p><p>I hate her too. I do not feel powerless one bit. I just plain hate her.</p><p></p><p>I will speak for me, and not for anybody else. Especially not for you pigless, because you are in a tough spot.</p><p></p><p>Pigless. OK. I can't leave you out. You are such an upright and honest woman. You are direct. Responsible, almost to a fault. Conscientious. There is not a fiber of your being that I have ever been able to detect that does not live honorably. You show integrity in everything you do. Most of all in relation to yourself. But certainly too in relation to your children, and family.</p><p></p><p>To not speak up, is to muzzle who you are. To compromise yourself.</p><p></p><p>I was going to say something like, our responsibility is to do right, for our children, who we model for. But that is not true. We are responsible to do right because it is ourselves who we model for. We construct ourselves by our righteous acts and we tear down ourselves when we do not act. I am not judging you or anybody else.</p><p></p><p>I am trying here to understand who I aspire to be.</p><p></p><p>You do not have to accuse this woman. But could you go to the principal and say: <em>I have reason to think that this teacher may be behaving inappropriately with male students. </em>And nothing more.</p><p></p><p>Put the burden on the principal to act. I might even put it in writing. Requesting confidentiality. Maybe to 2 different people, so it cannot be covered up: to the dean of students and to the principle.</p><p></p><p>Or could you make a CPS report?</p><p></p><p>I agree with the others who say that--by virtue of her role--she is at minimum putting at risk her credential, and more than likely (if your hunch is correct) behaving illegally, in terms of child sexual abuse. But we are also talking about abuse of power. All of her students are dependents. They are under her power and they are her responsibility and she is abusing her power and her students. Every single one of them. Including Ferb.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 710410, member: 18958"] This is so simple, this situation, yet at the same time so impossibly complex. I agree with Cheerwyn and Megan. I believe that this situation mandates action. I am a mandated reporter. Maybe it is because of this, that I see this as black and white. But it feels to me like we are watching somebody do harm. It is not only Ferb. It is all of her other victims. Because everybody is her victim. This woman is a predator. She consumes everybody. She walks on everybody. She violates boundaries. She dirties everything. She eats off plates...because that is who she is. I hate her too. I do not feel powerless one bit. I just plain hate her. I will speak for me, and not for anybody else. Especially not for you pigless, because you are in a tough spot. Pigless. OK. I can't leave you out. You are such an upright and honest woman. You are direct. Responsible, almost to a fault. Conscientious. There is not a fiber of your being that I have ever been able to detect that does not live honorably. You show integrity in everything you do. Most of all in relation to yourself. But certainly too in relation to your children, and family. To not speak up, is to muzzle who you are. To compromise yourself. I was going to say something like, our responsibility is to do right, for our children, who we model for. But that is not true. We are responsible to do right because it is ourselves who we model for. We construct ourselves by our righteous acts and we tear down ourselves when we do not act. I am not judging you or anybody else. I am trying here to understand who I aspire to be. You do not have to accuse this woman. But could you go to the principal and say: [I]I have reason to think that this teacher may be behaving inappropriately with male students. [/I]And nothing more. Put the burden on the principal to act. I might even put it in writing. Requesting confidentiality. Maybe to 2 different people, so it cannot be covered up: to the dean of students and to the principle. Or could you make a CPS report? I agree with the others who say that--by virtue of her role--she is at minimum putting at risk her credential, and more than likely (if your hunch is correct) behaving illegally, in terms of child sexual abuse. But we are also talking about abuse of power. All of her students are dependents. They are under her power and they are her responsibility and she is abusing her power and her students. Every single one of them. Including Ferb. [/QUOTE]
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