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Im tired of her ruining my day !
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<blockquote data-quote="Tyrrell" data-source="post: 665639" data-attributes="member: 19452"><p>Soooo,</p><p>While reading the section in your post about the boyfriend calling you and asking you what do to about the crying and screaming Difficult Child: the first thing that popped into my head was, " Take her to a therapist!" (Like that would really happen.) </p><p>My Difficult Child daughter who turned 40 several days ago, also equates getting her way ("Let me move back in!" for example) and giving her what she wants with love. I remember the last time I spoke with her she was screaming,"Why don't you love me? Why won't you do what I want?" </p><p></p><p>It's tough. Heartbreaking. I'm so sorry that it ruined your day. All you can do, I guess, is to pick yourself up and keep going. It's difficult to not call the boyfriend back. Your baby is crying, for heaven's sake and you want to make her feel better and let her know that you love her, just like you used to do many years ago.</p><p></p><p>But if the boyfriend can't handle her and she won't carry on a rational conversation with you, I don't think she can be comforted with what you have to offer her. Which hurts. Hugs, Tyrrell</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tyrrell, post: 665639, member: 19452"] Soooo, While reading the section in your post about the boyfriend calling you and asking you what do to about the crying and screaming Difficult Child: the first thing that popped into my head was, " Take her to a therapist!" (Like that would really happen.) My Difficult Child daughter who turned 40 several days ago, also equates getting her way ("Let me move back in!" for example) and giving her what she wants with love. I remember the last time I spoke with her she was screaming,"Why don't you love me? Why won't you do what I want?" It's tough. Heartbreaking. I'm so sorry that it ruined your day. All you can do, I guess, is to pick yourself up and keep going. It's difficult to not call the boyfriend back. Your baby is crying, for heaven's sake and you want to make her feel better and let her know that you love her, just like you used to do many years ago. But if the boyfriend can't handle her and she won't carry on a rational conversation with you, I don't think she can be comforted with what you have to offer her. Which hurts. Hugs, Tyrrell [/QUOTE]
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