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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 760136" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I feel guilty that things are easier with Kay not speaking to us. Although she has no job, somehow Lee and Kay are surviving in an old RV and relying on themselves. Lee works at a pizza parlor. Not a big paycheck but he works more hours than he used to. A cousin who is still allowed on Kats FB page says she thinks they both for on SSI for Disabilities. Why they don't look for a cheap studio apartment or Sec 8 Housing I'm not sure. They are not thriving but Lee is working more than before and both are using government services which they had been too lazy to look into when near us. Plus Kay liked a nice lifestyle on our dime, which we provided for a long time. But our role in her life is gone, she is angry, and the two of them are managing without us, which is good. </p><p></p><p>Kay thinks she is punishing us by, as our cousin says she calls it, divorcing us from her life. But by the end our main concern was her son and she gave him to our other daughter Amy so he is safe now. It troubles us that she gave away her son and never calls to ask about him.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes breaks, of all time lines, are good for them and us. I meanwhile try hard to live one day at a time and no longer think about Kay's future. I can't predict it and whatever will be....I believe it is God who can help the most. We are grateful for Jaden although it is clear he has a different type of life ahead. He is full of special needs but is getting the best possible help. He is difficult sometimes but my daughter Amy and other family are huge, endless support systems.</p><p></p><p>We actually mostly live in peace and as a happy family. And she.is surviving without us, which had to happen.</p><p></p><p>Love and hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 760136, member: 23706"] I feel guilty that things are easier with Kay not speaking to us. Although she has no job, somehow Lee and Kay are surviving in an old RV and relying on themselves. Lee works at a pizza parlor. Not a big paycheck but he works more hours than he used to. A cousin who is still allowed on Kats FB page says she thinks they both for on SSI for Disabilities. Why they don't look for a cheap studio apartment or Sec 8 Housing I'm not sure. They are not thriving but Lee is working more than before and both are using government services which they had been too lazy to look into when near us. Plus Kay liked a nice lifestyle on our dime, which we provided for a long time. But our role in her life is gone, she is angry, and the two of them are managing without us, which is good. Kay thinks she is punishing us by, as our cousin says she calls it, divorcing us from her life. But by the end our main concern was her son and she gave him to our other daughter Amy so he is safe now. It troubles us that she gave away her son and never calls to ask about him. Sometimes breaks, of all time lines, are good for them and us. I meanwhile try hard to live one day at a time and no longer think about Kay's future. I can't predict it and whatever will be....I believe it is God who can help the most. We are grateful for Jaden although it is clear he has a different type of life ahead. He is full of special needs but is getting the best possible help. He is difficult sometimes but my daughter Amy and other family are huge, endless support systems. We actually mostly live in peace and as a happy family. And she.is surviving without us, which had to happen. Love and hugs [/QUOTE]
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