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input on this yukky teacher situation please
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 715350" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Was she his teacher when he was underage?</p><p></p><p>I honestly dont know for sure what I would do in your shoes. Its touchy. He is now 18 and is unlikely to care what you say...years from now he will probably understand better, especially if he has his own children. I never found straight up confrontafion helpful with difficult son. He just blamed the entire universe, but changed nothing.</p><p></p><p>Any love relationship gone bad could cause an unstable teen to feel hopeless. Obviously teacher was inappropriate for sure. But Ferb needs to work hard in therapy on coping skills when relationships go bad, appropriate or inappropriate. He hopefully can grow stronger and realize no love interest is worth his precious life.</p><p></p><p>My biggest concern regarding the teacher would be her next group of ripe pickings. I am not positive I would do this.. I am not in this tough situation...but my moral compass tells ms I would be on highest ground to notify her superiors, even if I had to show them the letter you found.</p><p></p><p>Of course there is also Ferb to consider...how he would react to blowing the whistle on her. This would be my conflict. A BIG conflict.</p><p></p><p>You are in a very sticky situation. I dont envy you. It becomes what we know is right vs. the implosion of the last bit of trust the child has for you in his young and more morally flexible years. And the letter is strong evidence that your suspicions are real.</p><p></p><p>I feel for your extremely horrible situation and hope it ends soon. She is violating everything a teacher stands for.</p><p></p><p>Lots and lots of love and light.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 715350, member: 1550"] Was she his teacher when he was underage? I honestly dont know for sure what I would do in your shoes. Its touchy. He is now 18 and is unlikely to care what you say...years from now he will probably understand better, especially if he has his own children. I never found straight up confrontafion helpful with difficult son. He just blamed the entire universe, but changed nothing. Any love relationship gone bad could cause an unstable teen to feel hopeless. Obviously teacher was inappropriate for sure. But Ferb needs to work hard in therapy on coping skills when relationships go bad, appropriate or inappropriate. He hopefully can grow stronger and realize no love interest is worth his precious life. My biggest concern regarding the teacher would be her next group of ripe pickings. I am not positive I would do this.. I am not in this tough situation...but my moral compass tells ms I would be on highest ground to notify her superiors, even if I had to show them the letter you found. Of course there is also Ferb to consider...how he would react to blowing the whistle on her. This would be my conflict. A BIG conflict. You are in a very sticky situation. I dont envy you. It becomes what we know is right vs. the implosion of the last bit of trust the child has for you in his young and more morally flexible years. And the letter is strong evidence that your suspicions are real. I feel for your extremely horrible situation and hope it ends soon. She is violating everything a teacher stands for. Lots and lots of love and light. [/QUOTE]
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