Input?

[Shari]

First. husband doesn't pay a HUGE sum in support. They neither one make a lot. However, he pays considerably more than what is required. At the time, Cgfg had allergies and ear infections and her mom had her in soccer (which she pulled as soon as husband started going to her practices). He pays his full half (without considering the time she's here) plus the extra to help offset those things. (ps she hasn't been treated for allergies since, either). Just figured there would be bigger ticket items along the way and this would help offset that without the nickel and diming. Otherwise, each are responsible for the expenses on their time.
Upallnight...that is absolutely true. I can't put myself in the poorhouse for it, but that's so true. Thanks for the reminder. (we still need to attempt to stop this...somehow.)

 

[Shari]

And remember, this woman's ex paid child support on the child that lived EXCLUSIVELY with him, without even visiting her mother, for 8 years because it was easier than fighting her. Bio had this girl on her cell Phone plan ONLY and when he stopped paying support when he was putting her thru the 2nd year of college, she got so mad she dropped the girl's cell phone IMMEDIATELY. as in, shut it off and paid the termination fee. She's vindictive. And didn't even let her keep the number. Her own daughter...