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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 711500" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Nomad. Sometimes in my experience relationships go to this middle space. With our kids, for sure. With our spouses, too, when we do not know quite what to do. I was there for a while with M, until he decided to change. What could I do? Leave or stay, that was it. Until he decided to change. I did not talk to him about it as he is very defensive (or was.) It is harder when there is a choice.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes we do not know which way things will go until the future has revealed what happened in the rear view mirror. I think we have to have a special kind of patience to deal with the not knowing. Your friends, and you, will decide. Then it will be known.</p><p></p><p>There were few things I was surer of, then the distance I maintained from my mother. And then in the few days before she died, and after her death, I knew this distance, while understandable, was the gravest error of my life.</p><p></p><p>To me, that you are pondering this is to your great credit, in so many ways.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 711500, member: 18958"] Nomad. Sometimes in my experience relationships go to this middle space. With our kids, for sure. With our spouses, too, when we do not know quite what to do. I was there for a while with M, until he decided to change. What could I do? Leave or stay, that was it. Until he decided to change. I did not talk to him about it as he is very defensive (or was.) It is harder when there is a choice. Sometimes we do not know which way things will go until the future has revealed what happened in the rear view mirror. I think we have to have a special kind of patience to deal with the not knowing. Your friends, and you, will decide. Then it will be known. There were few things I was surer of, then the distance I maintained from my mother. And then in the few days before she died, and after her death, I knew this distance, while understandable, was the gravest error of my life. To me, that you are pondering this is to your great credit, in so many ways. [/QUOTE]
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