My boy was sober for almost 4 years. no complaints, working full time, going to school, girlfriend. what more could I ask for? I found out recently that he started smoking pot. He says its different than shooting heroin, I say if he thinks that way then he hasnt learned a damn thing in the past 4 years. He withdrew from school, girlfriend breaks up with him, he has no money, he is short tempered and irritable. Anxiety is through the roof. I gave him the rules, NO drugs or out you go, he said he would stop,he said he was sorry blah blah blah well here we are and we have been fighting weekly! he is disrespectful and rude, he says the only thing I do is kick him out. well what the heck am I supposed to do? punish him? send him to his room with no supper? take away tv for a week? so if I cant kick him out then what is my recourse? what is there to stop him from breaking my rules if there is not consequence? What do I do here? I feel like there is nothing I can do, he is choosing to smoke pot he admits it, he is risking it all and he doesnt care.