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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 684002" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>F@aih, I agree completely with SWOT. Except for one thing. I know of families of birth children who many years later found out about abuse by neighbors or teachers or family members. Look at the Catholic Church Scandal with priests abusing children who did not disclose this until decades later. They may have tried to blot it outside of their minds.</p><p></p><p>None of this seems to be truly volitional on her part. It sounds more compulsive and/or a need to work out trauma, a way to understand what she feels, and who she fears she may be (which is tied to how she was treated. Abandoned, neglected and most likely, abused.)</p><p></p><p>I would add one thing. I would very carefully watch your other kids, especially the baby. Not that she will hurt them. But as a way to be responsible to her. She should not have to worry that her impulses which she most likely feel to be out of her control could even potentially hurt those whom she loves.</p><p></p><p>Oh how I feel for her.</p><p></p><p>I hope you keep posting. It helps. Really. I am glad you are here. I adopted my son too. He had been In a crisis nursery until 22 months, when I met him. Like with you, problems unfolded as he grew up. Like with you, I did not anticipate them. My son is the sweetest and kindest person. I did not anticipate what came to be. It is hard but it is doable. We are doing it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 684002, member: 18958"] F@aih, I agree completely with SWOT. Except for one thing. I know of families of birth children who many years later found out about abuse by neighbors or teachers or family members. Look at the Catholic Church Scandal with priests abusing children who did not disclose this until decades later. They may have tried to blot it outside of their minds. None of this seems to be truly volitional on her part. It sounds more compulsive and/or a need to work out trauma, a way to understand what she feels, and who she fears she may be (which is tied to how she was treated. Abandoned, neglected and most likely, abused.) I would add one thing. I would very carefully watch your other kids, especially the baby. Not that she will hurt them. But as a way to be responsible to her. She should not have to worry that her impulses which she most likely feel to be out of her control could even potentially hurt those whom she loves. Oh how I feel for her. I hope you keep posting. It helps. Really. I am glad you are here. I adopted my son too. He had been In a crisis nursery until 22 months, when I met him. Like with you, problems unfolded as he grew up. Like with you, I did not anticipate them. My son is the sweetest and kindest person. I did not anticipate what came to be. It is hard but it is doable. We are doing it. [/QUOTE]
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