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<blockquote data-quote="F@ith" data-source="post: 684010" data-attributes="member: 20224"><p>I am careful in this area. I rarely leave her home when I'm gone. If I do either her sister or her dad is home and she is never with the baby alone. I do not even allow her to bathe him. She does help care for him and I trust her with his safety but no alone time. You're right though. I'd never want to put her in a position where she may regret her actions. Of course she doesn't know I avoid any of these situations on purpose.</p><p></p><p>I'm lucky she doesn't want to stay anywhere right now. She's still afraid to sleep at other people's homes and doesn't have any close friends. Her sister (my daughter) has been her only real friend the past 5 years. She has had a friend talk about a sleepover but honestly, in her writings, she has mentioned she doesn't trust herself to attend a sleepover. She has also written that she knows she's not truly in love with any of the people, it's just the idea she's in love with.</p><p></p><p>Another thing she's written more than once is how she knows some of the people she has initiated these conversations with only want one thing. She's written that she doesn't care if they use her for sex because "at least I'd feel loved in the moment."</p><p></p><p>We absolutely love her and have since we met her. She has always just fit. I'm thankful we can be here for her and just worry about her emotional future. I worry she'll get involved with drugs. I'm worried she'll end up like the family that discarded her. They call it their family curse. Oldest aunt had a baby at 13, that daughter, now grown, adopted KD's nephew. Another aunt has lost custody of her kids to bio dad's because of alcohol but that didn't make the kids lives any better. KD's oldest sister is an addict has been in jail & lost her kid. She's out of jail and lives with bio mom and middle sister with middle sister's bio dad.</p><p></p><p>It's so sad to me that none of them stepped in to take her but she's much better off. Even her bio dad wouldn't take her because he was afraid he'd lose his other kids in the end.</p><p></p><p>I appreciate your's and SWOT's advice! It's nice to have someone who's been there done that to talk to.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="F@ith, post: 684010, member: 20224"] I am careful in this area. I rarely leave her home when I'm gone. If I do either her sister or her dad is home and she is never with the baby alone. I do not even allow her to bathe him. She does help care for him and I trust her with his safety but no alone time. You're right though. I'd never want to put her in a position where she may regret her actions. Of course she doesn't know I avoid any of these situations on purpose. I'm lucky she doesn't want to stay anywhere right now. She's still afraid to sleep at other people's homes and doesn't have any close friends. Her sister (my daughter) has been her only real friend the past 5 years. She has had a friend talk about a sleepover but honestly, in her writings, she has mentioned she doesn't trust herself to attend a sleepover. She has also written that she knows she's not truly in love with any of the people, it's just the idea she's in love with. Another thing she's written more than once is how she knows some of the people she has initiated these conversations with only want one thing. She's written that she doesn't care if they use her for sex because "at least I'd feel loved in the moment." We absolutely love her and have since we met her. She has always just fit. I'm thankful we can be here for her and just worry about her emotional future. I worry she'll get involved with drugs. I'm worried she'll end up like the family that discarded her. They call it their family curse. Oldest aunt had a baby at 13, that daughter, now grown, adopted KD's nephew. Another aunt has lost custody of her kids to bio dad's because of alcohol but that didn't make the kids lives any better. KD's oldest sister is an addict has been in jail & lost her kid. She's out of jail and lives with bio mom and middle sister with middle sister's bio dad. It's so sad to me that none of them stepped in to take her but she's much better off. Even her bio dad wouldn't take her because he was afraid he'd lose his other kids in the end. I appreciate your's and SWOT's advice! It's nice to have someone who's been there done that to talk to. [/QUOTE]
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