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<blockquote data-quote="Night Owl Mama" data-source="post: 693558" data-attributes="member: 20490"><p>If you are friends on Facebook, she will see when you like or comment on another post. It will say (Your name) <strong>commented </strong>on this. If she clicks the bold, it will take her directly to your comment. So that is how she was able to find it.</p><p></p><p>I have a sister who used Facebook to bully me like that. Smiling politely at a family party when someone asked me about a certain parenting choice we had made, them posting a barrage of anti stuff on her Facebook page. It was very passive aggressive in my opinion and after it kept happening, I unfollowed her so I won't see what she posts anymore. Unfollowing just keeps her posts from showing up on my feed. It's not the same as unfriending or blocking. She doesn't know I have done it. Perhaps that might be a way for you to protect yourself a bit from her drama?</p><p></p><p>I had another family member that I had to actually unfriend after repeated harassment via Facebook but I did set a boundary first with the statement that she respect it or I would unfriend her and she went right ahead and did it again so yep, I did it. We need healthy boundaries in the cyber world too. Don't hesitate to create them for your own well being.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Night Owl Mama, post: 693558, member: 20490"] If you are friends on Facebook, she will see when you like or comment on another post. It will say (Your name) [B]commented [/B]on this. If she clicks the bold, it will take her directly to your comment. So that is how she was able to find it. I have a sister who used Facebook to bully me like that. Smiling politely at a family party when someone asked me about a certain parenting choice we had made, them posting a barrage of anti stuff on her Facebook page. It was very passive aggressive in my opinion and after it kept happening, I unfollowed her so I won't see what she posts anymore. Unfollowing just keeps her posts from showing up on my feed. It's not the same as unfriending or blocking. She doesn't know I have done it. Perhaps that might be a way for you to protect yourself a bit from her drama? I had another family member that I had to actually unfriend after repeated harassment via Facebook but I did set a boundary first with the statement that she respect it or I would unfriend her and she went right ahead and did it again so yep, I did it. We need healthy boundaries in the cyber world too. Don't hesitate to create them for your own well being. [/QUOTE]
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