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Is the phrase nobody is gonna help but yourself true?
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 669639" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>i agree that in most situations one can not do it alone... I think we all need support in various things in our lives and this is true for our difficult children as well. But I think the key is that you also need to be willing to help yourself...... no one else can solve your problems or do it for you. I think a lot of times our difficult children want just that.....so to me it makes sense to help someone who is helping themselves, but to step back and not help or try to do it for someone who is not helping themselves. This can get tricky at times.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 669639, member: 15801"] i agree that in most situations one can not do it alone... I think we all need support in various things in our lives and this is true for our difficult children as well. But I think the key is that you also need to be willing to help yourself...... no one else can solve your problems or do it for you. I think a lot of times our difficult children want just that.....so to me it makes sense to help someone who is helping themselves, but to step back and not help or try to do it for someone who is not helping themselves. This can get tricky at times. [/QUOTE]
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