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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 36157" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>With all the therapies & treatment plans floating around this family for the tweedles it's been pointed out to me recently how "negative" I am being.</p><p></p><p>I was scolded at a recent meeting for wm for failing to recognize his "stop & think" before asking something of me. Again, at a recent therapist appointment with kt I was scolded for seeming so negative.</p><p></p><p>I called kt's therapist today before our appointment tomorrow to discuss this issue. </p><p></p><p>I told him that while everyone seems to appreciate the grief & anger that kt & wm are feeling; the changes in their bodies due to puberty - the team as a whole are failing to recognize my grief, sadness over job loss & then the death of my mother. I also pointed out that my body is changing in a huge way - menopause. I asked very diplomatically for therapist to back off.</p><p></p><p>He suggested that maybe husband should bring kt in tomorrow. I called the man a wuss. therapist chuckled.</p><p></p><p>As parents of difficult children, we fight, advocate & research. We support our little wonders to hell & back. I feel we deserve some consideration in the therapeutic milieu. To understand that we are human beings.</p><p></p><p>I guess it's been a bad day emotionally - people, in general, need to stay away from me.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for letting me vent.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 36157, member: 393"] With all the therapies & treatment plans floating around this family for the tweedles it's been pointed out to me recently how "negative" I am being. I was scolded at a recent meeting for wm for failing to recognize his "stop & think" before asking something of me. Again, at a recent therapist appointment with kt I was scolded for seeming so negative. I called kt's therapist today before our appointment tomorrow to discuss this issue. I told him that while everyone seems to appreciate the grief & anger that kt & wm are feeling; the changes in their bodies due to puberty - the team as a whole are failing to recognize my grief, sadness over job loss & then the death of my mother. I also pointed out that my body is changing in a huge way - menopause. I asked very diplomatically for therapist to back off. He suggested that maybe husband should bring kt in tomorrow. I called the man a wuss. therapist chuckled. As parents of difficult children, we fight, advocate & research. We support our little wonders to hell & back. I feel we deserve some consideration in the therapeutic milieu. To understand that we are human beings. I guess it's been a bad day emotionally - people, in general, need to stay away from me. Thanks for letting me vent. [/QUOTE]
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