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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 36290"><p>I agree. I have had many scoldings, and these "scolders" have no idea what we have been through, going through. Nobody seems to realize our emotion. I had a hysterectomy two years ago. Some days I KNOW I am touchy and just want to not deal with things. Others have no idea. Always dealing with phone calls, reading, setting up plans, always listening to what difficult child has done. I feel so many times that difficult child is targeted before he even enters school. Or anything else. He has set a reputation, even though he has done a lot of growing up, a lot of changing, everyone remembers the bad and there is plenty good. Sometimes, just can't remember them.</p><p>I had a total hysterectomy, no hormone replacement. Hot flashes are unbearable at times. I think if I walked outside I would steam.</p><p>It is good to see others have same emotions at times. But sad to see at the same time. It is so hard. Went through the job loss a few years ago. Still will not come close to the wages I earned then. It is very hard to get past and move forward. I think of the 18 years I was there, I think of my friends there (who were told they can have no contact with me). I just keep telling myself, when one door closes another opens. Sometimes when I feel we are at the bottom of the barrel and things can't get worse..there is a new platform in that barrel and we fall farther down.</p><p>Sorry to go on. Just feel so familiar with this topic.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 36290"] I agree. I have had many scoldings, and these "scolders" have no idea what we have been through, going through. Nobody seems to realize our emotion. I had a hysterectomy two years ago. Some days I KNOW I am touchy and just want to not deal with things. Others have no idea. Always dealing with phone calls, reading, setting up plans, always listening to what difficult child has done. I feel so many times that difficult child is targeted before he even enters school. Or anything else. He has set a reputation, even though he has done a lot of growing up, a lot of changing, everyone remembers the bad and there is plenty good. Sometimes, just can't remember them. I had a total hysterectomy, no hormone replacement. Hot flashes are unbearable at times. I think if I walked outside I would steam. It is good to see others have same emotions at times. But sad to see at the same time. It is so hard. Went through the job loss a few years ago. Still will not come close to the wages I earned then. It is very hard to get past and move forward. I think of the 18 years I was there, I think of my friends there (who were told they can have no contact with me). I just keep telling myself, when one door closes another opens. Sometimes when I feel we are at the bottom of the barrel and things can't get worse..there is a new platform in that barrel and we fall farther down. Sorry to go on. Just feel so familiar with this topic. [/QUOTE]
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