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Is this how it usually goes??
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<blockquote data-quote="Crayola13" data-source="post: 717924" data-attributes="member: 21066"><p>I don't think the house rules are hard at all. It's not like you're giving her a 9:00 curfew on the weekends or not letting her talk on the phone. If you feel like you can trust her, go ahead and let her drive. See how it goes the first two times. </p><p></p><p>I think she sounds like she is dealing with a lot of anger and resentment. I also think it would be good for her to volunteer at the battered women's shelter, since she has been emotionally abused by her ex-boyfriend. Being in that environment would improve her self esteem and help her realize that she matters and doesn't deserve to be treated badly by men. Explain to her that the guy got her started on drugs so he could control her. When addicts bond by using drugs together, it's s very dysfunctional relationship. He wanted her to feel like she is nothing without him. He is poison. He will probably give her a story about how he is getting clean and realizes how badly he hurt her, but tell her not to fall for it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Crayola13, post: 717924, member: 21066"] I don't think the house rules are hard at all. It's not like you're giving her a 9:00 curfew on the weekends or not letting her talk on the phone. If you feel like you can trust her, go ahead and let her drive. See how it goes the first two times. I think she sounds like she is dealing with a lot of anger and resentment. I also think it would be good for her to volunteer at the battered women's shelter, since she has been emotionally abused by her ex-boyfriend. Being in that environment would improve her self esteem and help her realize that she matters and doesn't deserve to be treated badly by men. Explain to her that the guy got her started on drugs so he could control her. When addicts bond by using drugs together, it's s very dysfunctional relationship. He wanted her to feel like she is nothing without him. He is poison. He will probably give her a story about how he is getting clean and realizes how badly he hurt her, but tell her not to fall for it. [/QUOTE]
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