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<blockquote data-quote="mollyzuzu" data-source="post: 720348" data-attributes="member: 21853"><p>Hi all, not sure what to say. son was in hospital twice in the last two and half weeks, then sent to intensive inpatient for 8 days. Came out Saturday night and plans were to go to a rehab. BUT, now the rehab wants more info after doing assessement with son on Sunday morning, may be too much for them. Also need more medical documentation, always hoops to jump through, so tired. I was spoken to sternly for coming unglued while talking to a crisis worker, after all son will pick up on this and just because things are happening fast enough for me, does not mean they are not ahppening. I apologized, made nice and continued on. This is not going to end soon and I am not sure that I am up for this marathon. Son just does not seem to be budging, yes, I want things to happen faster, it has been 12 years already and getting worse!! Just yesterday we were on the way to the beach, warm day, and he tells me he wants to commit suicide. WHAT?? He has NEVER told me that before, told me he wants to go back to intensive inpatient, callled no beds anywhere!!! That;s where I lost it with the crisis worker. She was trying to explain that he may just be saying that in order to go back to the hospital. And I di dnot believe that AT that point anyway. Got to hospital t o pick up records that I need for rehab and ER nurse talked me into admitting son for suicide ideation. aye carrumba,,,, 6 hours later, he says he is HUNGRY ANS WANTS to go home AFTER he tells the social worker he is not safe at home and he does not like his parents, tears on that one. But it is what it is. So hunger gave in to him and the police did not end up chaptering him, we went home had TACO BELL, I slept with him in his room and here we are today, all alive, thanks be to god.</p><p>NOw here we sit wating to hear on rehab and I am thinking I totally blew it with taking him to ER and now with the medical clearances they want, rehab may never happen. NOt to mention that the insurance complany will most likely only cover a few days and then pull the insurance. As it is, we will have to pay room and board. We cannot afford this stuff..... and not to mention it doesnot seem to work. I hate to stop and not try, because you never know when something is going to work, but I am really tired on nothing working.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mollyzuzu, post: 720348, member: 21853"] Hi all, not sure what to say. son was in hospital twice in the last two and half weeks, then sent to intensive inpatient for 8 days. Came out Saturday night and plans were to go to a rehab. BUT, now the rehab wants more info after doing assessement with son on Sunday morning, may be too much for them. Also need more medical documentation, always hoops to jump through, so tired. I was spoken to sternly for coming unglued while talking to a crisis worker, after all son will pick up on this and just because things are happening fast enough for me, does not mean they are not ahppening. I apologized, made nice and continued on. This is not going to end soon and I am not sure that I am up for this marathon. Son just does not seem to be budging, yes, I want things to happen faster, it has been 12 years already and getting worse!! Just yesterday we were on the way to the beach, warm day, and he tells me he wants to commit suicide. WHAT?? He has NEVER told me that before, told me he wants to go back to intensive inpatient, callled no beds anywhere!!! That;s where I lost it with the crisis worker. She was trying to explain that he may just be saying that in order to go back to the hospital. And I di dnot believe that AT that point anyway. Got to hospital t o pick up records that I need for rehab and ER nurse talked me into admitting son for suicide ideation. aye carrumba,,,, 6 hours later, he says he is HUNGRY ANS WANTS to go home AFTER he tells the social worker he is not safe at home and he does not like his parents, tears on that one. But it is what it is. So hunger gave in to him and the police did not end up chaptering him, we went home had TACO BELL, I slept with him in his room and here we are today, all alive, thanks be to god. NOw here we sit wating to hear on rehab and I am thinking I totally blew it with taking him to ER and now with the medical clearances they want, rehab may never happen. NOt to mention that the insurance complany will most likely only cover a few days and then pull the insurance. As it is, we will have to pay room and board. We cannot afford this stuff..... and not to mention it doesnot seem to work. I hate to stop and not try, because you never know when something is going to work, but I am really tired on nothing working. [/QUOTE]
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