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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 714434" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>The first three years are very important to development and attachment and is the mental health and addiction issues in childs birth family. DNA matters. You mayor may not know anything about that. I know three years in an orphanage has to have affected him. </p><p></p><p>Can he change? Will he change? Hard tp guess. I have adopted a few kids. Three are great, altjough one did drugs for a while butnis doing great at 34. One whom we adopted at age 6 who lived in an orphanage said "bye" and never returned. He did not use drugs,,,just not attached. One was ado0ted at 11 and too dangerous to keep living in a family.</p><p></p><p>Your son sounds mild right now althougj I never allowed my daughter to smoke even cigarettes in the house. We swept her room regularly and tjrew out anything we found,veven cigarettes. At 19 we made her leave and she quit her horrible lifestyle and became the great young woman she is today. </p><p></p><p>Is your other son also adopted? If not maybe adopted son resents a birthchild his age that is doing so well. At any rate all you can do is keep trying. The future is a mystery.</p><p></p><p>Yesterday is history, tomorrow a mystery, today is a gift! Enjoy every good moment. Therspy csn help. Sounds like you and hub could maybe benefot from marital counseling.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 714434, member: 1550"] The first three years are very important to development and attachment and is the mental health and addiction issues in childs birth family. DNA matters. You mayor may not know anything about that. I know three years in an orphanage has to have affected him. Can he change? Will he change? Hard tp guess. I have adopted a few kids. Three are great, altjough one did drugs for a while butnis doing great at 34. One whom we adopted at age 6 who lived in an orphanage said "bye" and never returned. He did not use drugs,,,just not attached. One was ado0ted at 11 and too dangerous to keep living in a family. Your son sounds mild right now althougj I never allowed my daughter to smoke even cigarettes in the house. We swept her room regularly and tjrew out anything we found,veven cigarettes. At 19 we made her leave and she quit her horrible lifestyle and became the great young woman she is today. Is your other son also adopted? If not maybe adopted son resents a birthchild his age that is doing so well. At any rate all you can do is keep trying. The future is a mystery. Yesterday is history, tomorrow a mystery, today is a gift! Enjoy every good moment. Therspy csn help. Sounds like you and hub could maybe benefot from marital counseling. [/QUOTE]
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