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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 714880" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Seek, i am just like you. Nobody is allowed to smoke anything in my space, and that includes my property. For a while my adopted from Asia daughter used drugs and smoked cigarettes. She was a minor in my house and not folliwing the rules so I went through her purse and room to try to find out if she was doing aything dangerous. I found cigarettes a lot and always took them and threw them out. Even though she always used the excuse "I am holding them for a fried" I just told her cigarettes were not allowed on our property for any reason. This included all adults, family or not, although this daughter was the only one who smoked.</p><p></p><p>Eventually she quit cigarettes and meth, cocaine etc.</p><p></p><p>I dont think it is too controlling to restrict smoking of anything to doing it all off your property. I would do it whether a therapist advised it or not. It is my house. </p><p></p><p>Therapists offer their opinions. Therapy is not an exact science. A lot is opinion. I take what I need and leave the rest.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 714880, member: 1550"] Seek, i am just like you. Nobody is allowed to smoke anything in my space, and that includes my property. For a while my adopted from Asia daughter used drugs and smoked cigarettes. She was a minor in my house and not folliwing the rules so I went through her purse and room to try to find out if she was doing aything dangerous. I found cigarettes a lot and always took them and threw them out. Even though she always used the excuse "I am holding them for a fried" I just told her cigarettes were not allowed on our property for any reason. This included all adults, family or not, although this daughter was the only one who smoked. Eventually she quit cigarettes and meth, cocaine etc. I dont think it is too controlling to restrict smoking of anything to doing it all off your property. I would do it whether a therapist advised it or not. It is my house. Therapists offer their opinions. Therapy is not an exact science. A lot is opinion. I take what I need and leave the rest. [/QUOTE]
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