It really takes a lot for me to ask but can I get some positive vibes please?

Discussion in 'The Watercooler' started by hearts and roses, May 24, 2011.

  1. hearts and roses

    hearts and roses Mind Reader

    Just going through an incredibly blue period here, probably hormonal, but probably also due to my chronic pain issues, not to mention the weather.

    I'm having a hard time finding my footing and getting a grip and just feeling so sad; want to cry, beginning to isolate myself again. My medications are not helping so I have to call my Dr again.

    And H is also in the same funk, though he won't acknowledge it or do anything about it, which puts him (and me) at risk of him doing something stupid. I can't help him and he doesn't even notice how I feel so we're useless to one another.

  2. SearchingForRainbows

    SearchingForRainbows Active Member

    I've noticed you haven't been around much lately and even though I don't post as much as I used to, I've missed you. So sorry to hear you're not doing well and your H is in the same boat as you. It makes it even harder when there isn't enough support at home.

    I'm glad you're going to call your doctor. Sending lots of caring thoughts your way and hope you feel better soon... Hugs... SFR
  3. DammitJanet

    DammitJanet Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Hugs Jo...I know it can get really old, really fast. I have always said I am sick and tired of being sick and
  4. AnnieO

    AnnieO Shooting from the Hip

    Sweetie... I do understand. I don't have any advice (except do what you're doing about the doctor). But I do have lots of hugs for you.

  5. Shari

    Shari IsItFridayYet?

    Hugs. Maybe the sun will come out one of these days and the funk fungus will just go away.
  6. Hound dog

    Hound dog Nana's are Beautiful


    The weather is getting to me too.

    Sending good vibes and thinking good thoughts.
  7. Mattsmom277

    Mattsmom277 Active Member

    Sending good thoughts and vibes from here too. I've been there and it is not a pleasant place to be. I hope to hear you and husband both work your ways out of this space you are both at. You're doing the right things to take care of yourself, time and those efforts will bring change. In the meantime, be good to yourself and know many of us are thinking of you.
  8. KTMom91

    KTMom91 Well-Known Member

    Many hugs, Jo. Will keep you in my thoughts.
  9. HaoZi

    HaoZi Guest

    Hope you have a nice weather day soon that you can both get out and will lift your spirits.
  10. Steely

    Steely Active Member

    Sending many, many hugs...........I truly know how hard it is. It hoovers. I hope it all stops in godpseed.
  11. hearts and roses

    hearts and roses Mind Reader

    Thanks, I'm at home now and I'm doing a pretty good job faking it. You know, fake it till you make it? Work was difficult. My God, when it hits, it really hits.

    Thanks again
  12. totoro

    totoro Mom? What's a GFG?

    Jeff and I have been going through a lot of caca as well, it is hard to put on the happy face at times. I will send you all of my happy and positive vibes... I got a few left. :)
  13. flutterby

    flutterby Fly away!

  14. tiredmommy

    tiredmommy Site Moderator

    Sending lots of {{{hugs}}} and good thoughts your way.
  15. Marcie Mac

    Marcie Mac Just Plain Ole Tired

    Sorry Jo :(

  16. shellyd67

    shellyd67 Active Member

    H&R all my thoughts and hugs to you darling ... I was there last week and it is oh so trying ... feel better soon ...
  17. nvts

    nvts Active Member

    Did you get the sun I sent you? Don't you love the end of the rope time? Get some chocolate - it alters your brain waves!

  18. Wiped Out

    Wiped Out Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Hugs being sent your way. I hope you start feeling better soon.
  19. Jena

    Jena New Member

    hey you! hang in there....... life can be a real **** at times......... email me!

  20. Star*

    Star* call 911

    This isn't's made just for you (hearts and roses) --------grab a glass of wine, relax - turn up the volume - and enjoy!!!!!!

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    It was hard to pick this over Happy, Happy Joy Joy and Drop the Bomb On me by the Gap band.....but you seemed like you could use a little tenderness not jamz....

    Hugs & Love