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<blockquote data-quote="SeaGenieTx" data-source="post: 667790" data-attributes="member: 18773"><p>Oh yes, the guilt.... went thru this the first two times I kicked my son out (and felt guilty, called him, let him come back, things got worse, kicked him back out)....</p><p></p><p>I had to go thru a couple of cycles of major guilt, calling my son, wanting to have a relationship, he could care less, treated me like crap, major problems, endess cycle.</p><p></p><p>I felt like I was in a clown car until finally I got to my breaking point and decided enough, get me out of this circus. I'm happier and more at peace when he is not around. When he was home his cell phone was blowing up with people calling or texting constantly. Someone would come pick him up and off they'd go to party somewhere until 4:00 a.m. The pot smell reeking from his clothes and room made me nauseated. He'd tell me I was delusional that he wasn't smoking pot, etc.</p><p></p><p>I found the pipes, bong, pot stems, residue from dabbing in his pig stye of a room. Found an empty box of WhipIts (little canisters they inhale to get a short term high). I literally lost my mind when he put up a "KUSH" black light poster. One huge marijuana leaf staring at me when I walked down my hallway towards his room. Oh hell no. Ripped that crap off the walls, packed it in a trash bag and told him get it out of my house or I'd set his room on fire. (I get pretty animated and scary when I get pushed to my limits). I'd never do it - but anything to put the fear of God in his face at the time was my goal.</p><p></p><p>The guilt..... you will let it get to you over and over until you reach the point I am at which is FED UP. I didn't survive all my hard knocks in life to put up with a smart ass son who has zero respect for his mother. I told him I want nothing to do with him until he has a full-time job or is in school full-time. Until then we have no relationship. I'm not feeling guilty anymore, I'm feeling PISSED OFF.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeaGenieTx, post: 667790, member: 18773"] Oh yes, the guilt.... went thru this the first two times I kicked my son out (and felt guilty, called him, let him come back, things got worse, kicked him back out).... I had to go thru a couple of cycles of major guilt, calling my son, wanting to have a relationship, he could care less, treated me like crap, major problems, endess cycle. I felt like I was in a clown car until finally I got to my breaking point and decided enough, get me out of this circus. I'm happier and more at peace when he is not around. When he was home his cell phone was blowing up with people calling or texting constantly. Someone would come pick him up and off they'd go to party somewhere until 4:00 a.m. The pot smell reeking from his clothes and room made me nauseated. He'd tell me I was delusional that he wasn't smoking pot, etc. I found the pipes, bong, pot stems, residue from dabbing in his pig stye of a room. Found an empty box of WhipIts (little canisters they inhale to get a short term high). I literally lost my mind when he put up a "KUSH" black light poster. One huge marijuana leaf staring at me when I walked down my hallway towards his room. Oh hell no. Ripped that crap off the walls, packed it in a trash bag and told him get it out of my house or I'd set his room on fire. (I get pretty animated and scary when I get pushed to my limits). I'd never do it - but anything to put the fear of God in his face at the time was my goal. The guilt..... you will let it get to you over and over until you reach the point I am at which is FED UP. I didn't survive all my hard knocks in life to put up with a smart ass son who has zero respect for his mother. I told him I want nothing to do with him until he has a full-time job or is in school full-time. Until then we have no relationship. I'm not feeling guilty anymore, I'm feeling PISSED OFF. [/QUOTE]
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