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<blockquote data-quote="A dad" data-source="post: 668676" data-attributes="member: 18668"><p>I understand how you feel my youngest son does not wanna have anything to do with me or his mother he said that he tried to be close to us but realized that we are not interested a thing that we are not without blame so he hardly contacts us be it on FB or phone and he ignores our attempts to contact him. </p><p>He is not a addict of any substance from what I know and even if it is it does not really matter he was like this most of his life he works to supports himself but decided that he wants to live his life alone without any other person in his life. Next year when he comes back from working abroad he said he will buy a apartment(which he can their dirt cheap in my country) and find a full time job to support himself.</p><p>But I have to say its painful I did not raise a child so he can be a stranger to us when he grows up. I did not invested so much love and care for him to ignore us and I can not do anything about it I have no power over his decisions.</p><p>Yes he had no problem with the law and with drugs and yes he was a nice kid and yes he has a job and soon his own place to live but what is the point when you are always alone and by his own words was always like that. </p><p>After my discussion with him I found out how lonely he was his entire life and how much I failed as a parent. Being lonely is a feeling I do not wish to the worst people in the world and yet I let that happen to my child.</p><p>Its a awful when our children decide to cut us of from their life it really is but accept its awful and move on we can not change the past and we can only look towards the future. As my mother said life moves on.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="A dad, post: 668676, member: 18668"] I understand how you feel my youngest son does not wanna have anything to do with me or his mother he said that he tried to be close to us but realized that we are not interested a thing that we are not without blame so he hardly contacts us be it on FB or phone and he ignores our attempts to contact him. He is not a addict of any substance from what I know and even if it is it does not really matter he was like this most of his life he works to supports himself but decided that he wants to live his life alone without any other person in his life. Next year when he comes back from working abroad he said he will buy a apartment(which he can their dirt cheap in my country) and find a full time job to support himself. But I have to say its painful I did not raise a child so he can be a stranger to us when he grows up. I did not invested so much love and care for him to ignore us and I can not do anything about it I have no power over his decisions. Yes he had no problem with the law and with drugs and yes he was a nice kid and yes he has a job and soon his own place to live but what is the point when you are always alone and by his own words was always like that. After my discussion with him I found out how lonely he was his entire life and how much I failed as a parent. Being lonely is a feeling I do not wish to the worst people in the world and yet I let that happen to my child. Its a awful when our children decide to cut us of from their life it really is but accept its awful and move on we can not change the past and we can only look towards the future. As my mother said life moves on. [/QUOTE]
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