Hi everyone, its been awhile since I was on here, so I'm going to tell you what we're up to. difficult child 1 still isn't on medications that work for him. He is defiant and aggressive and sneaky. School started this week and the teacher is already seeing defiant behavior from him. It used to be that he'd have a really long honeymoon period. The medications make it so he isn't hallucinating or out and out attacking people. We put an alarm on his bedroom door, so we know everytime it opens. We also put one on the front door, because difficult child 2 has learned how to take off the baby locks. He starts a great autism pre-school next month. They will even help potty train him!!! We're trying to do a program called the play project, but I don't think we're doing it right. The autism specialist that comes to our house is just learning how to do it too. We've started taking difficult child 2 to an Occupational Therapist (OT) to try to stop the mouthing everything. A few months ago he was eating paint. He is getting sick alot. easy child 1 has a speach delay and I think he is hyposensitive to everything. After some rough and tumble play all of a sudden he starts talking and moving around. easy child 2 is learning to scoot and put things in her mouth. She might be having seizures. She goes rigid for about 2 sec. about 1 - 3 times a day. We're still checking into it. Plus, she will probably need surgery in about 3 months to unclog a tear duct. husband and I are as normal as we can get; still only half-way crazy.