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<blockquote data-quote="what to do" data-source="post: 669107" data-attributes="member: 19639"><p>I've read a few of the posts and think many people here are dealing with similar issues as mine. </p><p>My daughter will be 29 this week and today I discovered that she has once again taken one of my credit cards and used it without my permission. It is the umpteenth time we have been dealing with this and I'm at a loss as to what I should do. What makes the situation worse is that both she and my adorable 2-year-old granddaughter live with us and I can't just put them out. My daughter works full-time but does not make enough to pay for daycare and afford a place to stay. The last time this happened she agreed that she will get help and give me her paychecks so I can help her budget. She has given me her checks and claims she went to see a counselor but unfortunately I'm not sure I can believe anything she says. She does not do drugs or drink and the credit card charges are mostly for ridiculous stuff like snacks and coffee. She is a loving, caring mother and is always remorseful but that doesn't stop her from stealing again. I don't know if filing charges against her is in the best interest of her or my granddaughter but I also don't want to continue enabling her. </p><p>I appreciate any advice you may have.</p><p></p><p>Thank you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="what to do, post: 669107, member: 19639"] I've read a few of the posts and think many people here are dealing with similar issues as mine. My daughter will be 29 this week and today I discovered that she has once again taken one of my credit cards and used it without my permission. It is the umpteenth time we have been dealing with this and I'm at a loss as to what I should do. What makes the situation worse is that both she and my adorable 2-year-old granddaughter live with us and I can't just put them out. My daughter works full-time but does not make enough to pay for daycare and afford a place to stay. The last time this happened she agreed that she will get help and give me her paychecks so I can help her budget. She has given me her checks and claims she went to see a counselor but unfortunately I'm not sure I can believe anything she says. She does not do drugs or drink and the credit card charges are mostly for ridiculous stuff like snacks and coffee. She is a loving, caring mother and is always remorseful but that doesn't stop her from stealing again. I don't know if filing charges against her is in the best interest of her or my granddaughter but I also don't want to continue enabling her. I appreciate any advice you may have. Thank you! [/QUOTE]
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