Lsst week difficult child had this huge blow out. I can't even remember what it was about, but during the epidose difficult child tells me that I'm trying to change him and that I am just going to have to accept that this is who he is. I replied that I am not trying to change him, but that I want him to understand that he can not go through life treating people with disrespect. He has to be nicer. When he gets older and has a job no boss on the face of this earth is going to put up with his nonsense? His answer? "When I get out of culinary school I'm going to OWN the restaurant. I won't have to take orders from some dumb ass!" Last night it was calling his brother stupid. I told him that he would be howling if someone call him stupid and he can't call other peole names. His answer? "People can't call me stupid because I'm not. No matter what you think about easy child, he IS stupid and nothing that you say can change that." I'm starting to think that he is never going to get the whole "treating people with respect" thing. Anyone else going through this?