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Its only getting worse...my kids will be homeless and in prison
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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 641806" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>Insane, I know about the school issue but I read a article about Aspies not ever wanting to set foot in school again once they are out. Plus this school is specifically there to help them and work them.. they even have Occupational Therapist (OT), speech etc coming in for them. How will she function at a job or college if she cant handle two hours with kids like her and other issues. But.. Im going to consider it anyway.</p><p></p><p>GuideMe, I know and even though I asked them if thats what they wanted ( they said no) I just dont feel they would be better off nor would I. Their father unless hes changed ( No alcohol, no violence, he says nothing wrong w my kids it my fault..plus he believes in the belt etc) I dont see that as an option. Plus Im their mom, its my job and my love that has to get them through this..</p><p></p><p>MidwestMom, glad it worked for her school wise. Your son , yeah like my daughter will always be an issues I guess? They dont see the dirt or oily hair, dirty teeth..doesnt bother them? I dont feel like a residential program would be right.. its like Im abandoning him or a bad mom? I stayed for just two weeks in one for refusal of school and it did nothing,( I know two weeks in nothing) sis stayed for few months violence, no school.. did nothing for her but resentment. I don't know. Maybe Im wrong.</p><p></p><p>Californiablonde, thank you and hugs to you.. I hope all is well with you too, I need to catch up with everyone here on you all <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>2much2recover,How do I stop blaming myself? I mean, yes I made some wrong choices that I feel bad about. But when most say its me, how do I not blame myself? I cry and wonder why everyone on my block and other places I know have almost no issues , the life they want, can do what they want, etc why not me? I say it that its DNA but again, DNA my fault! </p><p></p><p>Wiped Out,your son almost sounds like mine..except for the urinating and smearing but son doesnt care when he has accidents in his pants he will sometimes stay all day in it. Im glad he and your daughter are doing better. I wish I could see ahead 10 years or so...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 641806, member: 18100"] Insane, I know about the school issue but I read a article about Aspies not ever wanting to set foot in school again once they are out. Plus this school is specifically there to help them and work them.. they even have Occupational Therapist (OT), speech etc coming in for them. How will she function at a job or college if she cant handle two hours with kids like her and other issues. But.. Im going to consider it anyway. GuideMe, I know and even though I asked them if thats what they wanted ( they said no) I just dont feel they would be better off nor would I. Their father unless hes changed ( No alcohol, no violence, he says nothing wrong w my kids it my fault..plus he believes in the belt etc) I dont see that as an option. Plus Im their mom, its my job and my love that has to get them through this.. MidwestMom, glad it worked for her school wise. Your son , yeah like my daughter will always be an issues I guess? They dont see the dirt or oily hair, dirty teeth..doesnt bother them? I dont feel like a residential program would be right.. its like Im abandoning him or a bad mom? I stayed for just two weeks in one for refusal of school and it did nothing,( I know two weeks in nothing) sis stayed for few months violence, no school.. did nothing for her but resentment. I don't know. Maybe Im wrong. Californiablonde, thank you and hugs to you.. I hope all is well with you too, I need to catch up with everyone here on you all :) 2much2recover,How do I stop blaming myself? I mean, yes I made some wrong choices that I feel bad about. But when most say its me, how do I not blame myself? I cry and wonder why everyone on my block and other places I know have almost no issues , the life they want, can do what they want, etc why not me? I say it that its DNA but again, DNA my fault! Wiped Out,your son almost sounds like mine..except for the urinating and smearing but son doesnt care when he has accidents in his pants he will sometimes stay all day in it. Im glad he and your daughter are doing better. I wish I could see ahead 10 years or so... [/QUOTE]
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