for me. My physical health. I've gotten 3 phone calls/one in home family therapist visit regarding how I'm looking lately. The level of pain I'm feeling; how I look today versus January 15th when kt came home. I can't even come up with an answer for that....kt knows her line in the sand to be removed from here. As she's so addicted to chaos & drama (being a teen girl & attachment disordered to boot) kt will always be a challenge. As are all our kids. I challenged this question as no one has found a respite program for kt as of yet; she is being turned down left & right. I challenged this question because our Plan B doesn't have a location. I also challenged this question because I'm confused by it. I'm in the midst of a series of bad days, a flare, whatever you might call it. My brain is a bit "swollen" as shown by the MRI I had last week. Nothing new to be honest. I don't think I signed any HIPPA for myself & the team to contact my MDs. Who knows as I'm handed at least a half dozen every time I attend a mtg for either of my children. I finally understood - I no longer have husband here to tag off to 24/7 & do not qualify for 24/7 help. I'm not hesitant to draw a physical line in the sand for myself - too confused on how to define it. Thanks for the ear - just needed to talk.