Honestly I don't know how much more I can take. Tonight while I was on the phone with my sister difficult child and easy child 1 got into a fight and difficult child had easy child down on the couch choking him of course she denied it but I checked his neck and it was red all the way around it plus I know he would not lie about that he was so upset and crying. I told difficult child that I have had enough if her behavior doesn't get better she is going to the hospital and if she ever put her hands on anyone I would be calling the cops. Thank god for husband he took all the kids to the store with him so I could have a break.I told husband we need to sit down and make up a list of house rule and consequences for when the rules are broken and no matter what they will be enforced. We will see how it goes. I'm expecting a lot of resistance and bad behavior.