J update

Discussion in 'Parent Emeritus' started by Abbey, Sep 29, 2008.

  1. Abbey

    Abbey Spork Queen

    Well, the communication barriar has evidently broken between J and us. Hmmm...not sure that is such a good thing.:sick:

    He has been kicked out of his apartment by his mom-aged girlfriend as of two days ago, hence the phone calls for money. Cops called, all his stuff that he has acquired in the past few months still in there...yadda...you get the picture.

    So he's in a shelter yet again. And calling...and calling.

    Now, *I* use caller ID. I just don't answer. FIGURE IT OUT. husband, on the other hand answers and then spends the next hour griping about it. No job, no work and now no place to live. Hmmm...who could predict the next chapter?

  2. Suz

    Suz (the future) MRS. GERE

    Uh oh... :(

  3. susiestar

    susiestar Roll With It

    Sorry. Hugs.
  4. judi

    judi Active Member

    I'm sorry!
  5. katya02

    katya02 Solace

    I'm sorry. What a tough situation.
  6. Hound dog

    Hound dog Nana's are Beautiful

    ((hugs)) Abbey. difficult child will figure something out.
  7. meowbunny

    meowbunny New Member

    I'm sorry. Let's hope he won't be calling from jail in the not-so-distant future (or is that just wishful thinking?).

  8. witzend

    witzend Well-Known Member

    Is his stuff at the ex-gfs? I'd let her toss it or sell it. It's not your problem. Hope husband figures out the caller ID.
  9. KTMom91

    KTMom91 Well-Known Member

    Soryy he wasn't able to keep it together. many hugs.
  10. WhymeMom?

    WhymeMom? No real answers to life..

    Sorry Abbey.......
  11. mrscatinthehat

    mrscatinthehat Seussical

    Sorry to hear this.

  12. PonyGirl

    PonyGirl Warrior Parent

    Sorry! (((BIG HUGS)))

  13. ScentofCedar

    ScentofCedar New Member


    Good for you, about the caller ID, Abbey. If one of the parents reacts in a healthier manner, the other has a role model.

    Stay as calm as you can, Abbey. Know we will be thinking of you ~ and J, too.