husband and I are taking Jessie back to the neurologist tomorrow. I have coached her on how to express herself, show her pain and NOT stop her tremors. I hope that he can understand how awful this is for her and figure some way to HELP. It iwll probably be easier to get him to do something because we have her scheduled for a psychiatric evaluation. That will probably make him happy. Now we have to figure out how to get him to treat the pain. Cause he does NOT want to. Sigh. Thanks for all the support - you are wonderful!