So Tired
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So on Monday, St. Patrick's day, I always buy some green candies like jolly ranchers and some gold wrapped foil coins and then the leprechaun hides them where the kids are sure to find them -- in the drawer with their toothbrush, in their lunchbox, down the street on the way home from the bus stop. This year my 10 year old easy child, I'll call her Luvbug, catches me slippin' up about leaving some of the candy at a neighbors.
Luvbug: Oh, I thought the "Leprechaun" left the candy!
Me: (blushing) How long have you known?!
She: Since last year. (with big girl confidence)
Me: Anything else we need to talk about?
Luvbug: I also know about the T.F. she says and points to her smile. You know, the Tooth Fairy.
Me: Not her too!!! Why did't you tell me? (sheepishly)
Luvbug: I didn't want to make you feel bad...(Sweet expression of love in eyes, warm hug)
You just gotta love those PCs and their empathy! I know when my difficult child let me know that he knew there was no tooth fairy he became so angry! "You lied to me" he cried! I told him that the tooth fairy was real in that she lived in every Mother's heart...(Doesn't that sound nice?) "That's not the same "he responded, quite hurt and angry.
Guess that's what makes the difference between my difficult child and my easy child. easy child enjoys lifes little pleasures, always looking on the bright side and always thinking of others. She brings so much joy to my life!
P.S. The Easter Bunny and Santa live on, but I fear their time is coming soon......
Luvbug: Oh, I thought the "Leprechaun" left the candy!
Me: (blushing) How long have you known?!
She: Since last year. (with big girl confidence)
Me: Anything else we need to talk about?
Luvbug: I also know about the T.F. she says and points to her smile. You know, the Tooth Fairy.
Me: Not her too!!! Why did't you tell me? (sheepishly)
Luvbug: I didn't want to make you feel bad...(Sweet expression of love in eyes, warm hug)
You just gotta love those PCs and their empathy! I know when my difficult child let me know that he knew there was no tooth fairy he became so angry! "You lied to me" he cried! I told him that the tooth fairy was real in that she lived in every Mother's heart...(Doesn't that sound nice?) "That's not the same "he responded, quite hurt and angry.
Guess that's what makes the difference between my difficult child and my easy child. easy child enjoys lifes little pleasures, always looking on the bright side and always thinking of others. She brings so much joy to my life!
P.S. The Easter Bunny and Santa live on, but I fear their time is coming soon......