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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 724773" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I suspect you pick people to be in your life who are not worthy of you, both male and female. Some men are charming sweet talkers with no substance to them and no ability to form real attachments and some women, for various reasons are more comfortable with that than with deeper men who are capable of true love. I don't know if this is like your men or not. Or if you fear true intimacy. They are just examples. Some women who we befriend can't form intimacy either and can be only shallow, false friends. Mean too. But that isn't a real friend, is it?</p><p></p><p>Maybe you need to be more mindful of whom you allow into your precious life. You deserve deep, meaningful, empathetic people in your life...people who truly value you.on a deep level.</p><p></p><p>No real friend would dump you because your children are disabled. That's no friend! That's an idiot!</p><p></p><p>I have found it possible to find quality friends, although only a few, and a top notch husband who will never leave me. I am no more special than you, but perhaps I am better at only allowing quality people into my life. by the way, I made many goofs in my younger days. I had to learn a true person from a fraud. Frauds can be very good actors.</p><p>Always remember this about a possible love relationship. "If it seems to good to be true, it is."</p><p>You can learn to be careful and go for quality, not shallow pretenders.</p><p></p><p>Much love to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 724773, member: 1550"] I suspect you pick people to be in your life who are not worthy of you, both male and female. Some men are charming sweet talkers with no substance to them and no ability to form real attachments and some women, for various reasons are more comfortable with that than with deeper men who are capable of true love. I don't know if this is like your men or not. Or if you fear true intimacy. They are just examples. Some women who we befriend can't form intimacy either and can be only shallow, false friends. Mean too. But that isn't a real friend, is it? Maybe you need to be more mindful of whom you allow into your precious life. You deserve deep, meaningful, empathetic people in your life...people who truly value you.on a deep level. No real friend would dump you because your children are disabled. That's no friend! That's an idiot! I have found it possible to find quality friends, although only a few, and a top notch husband who will never leave me. I am no more special than you, but perhaps I am better at only allowing quality people into my life. by the way, I made many goofs in my younger days. I had to learn a true person from a fraud. Frauds can be very good actors. Always remember this about a possible love relationship. "If it seems to good to be true, it is." You can learn to be careful and go for quality, not shallow pretenders. Much love to you. [/QUOTE]
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