JUST a mum ?

Discussion in 'The Watercooler' started by Marg's Man, Jun 2, 2011.

  1. Marg's Man

    Marg's Man Member

    We just got this from a friend of my wife's, a mother, of course.

    Most of you are Mum's already, some are new mums, others are mum's 'in waiting'; the rest of the people reading this are probably, like me, never going to be a mum.

    in my opinion Marg has already qualified for Executive Senior Research Associate status, she already had Associate Research Assistant status when I first met her...

    Marg's Man

    A woman, renewing her driver's licence, was asked by the woman at the Registry to state her occupation.

    She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself.
    'What I mean is, ' explained the woman at Registry, 'do you have a job or are you just a .....?'
    'I hold an important position' snapped the woman. 'I'm a Mum.'

    'We don't list 'Mum' as an occupation, 'housewife' covers it,' said the recorder emphatically.

    I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself in the same situation.
    The Clerk was obviously a career woman, poised, efficient, and possessed of a high sounding title like, 'Official Interrogator' or 'City Registrar...'

    'What is your occupation?' she probed.

    What made me say it? I do not know. The words simply popped out. 'I'm a Research Associate in the field of Child Development and Human Relations.'

    The clerk paused, ball-point pen frozen in midair and looked up as though she had not heard right....

    I repeated the title slowly emphasizing the most significant words. Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written, in bold, black ink on the official questionnaire..

    'Might I ask,' said the clerk with new interest, 'just what you do in your field?'

    Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I heard myself reply, 'I have a continuing program of research, (what mother doesn't) in the laboratory and in the field, (normally I would have said 'indoors & out').

    I'm working for my Masters, (first the Lord and then the whole family) and already have four credits (all daughters). Of course, the job is one of the most demanding in the humanities, (any mother care to disagree?) and I often work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it). But the job is more challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and the rewards are more of a satisfaction rather than just money.'

    There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk's voice as she completed the form, stood up and personally ushered me to the door

    As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I was greeted by my lab assistants -- ages 13, 7, and 3. Upstairs I could hear our new experimental model, (a 6 month old baby) in the child development program, testing out a new vocal pattern. I felt I had scored a beat on bureaucracy!

    And I had gone on the official records as someone more distinguished and indispensable to mankind than 'just another Mum.'

    What a glorious career!
    Especially when there's a title on the door.

    Does this make grandmothers 'Senior Research associates in the field of Child Development and Human Relations'
    And great grandmothers 'Executive Senior Research Associates?
    I think so!

    I also think it makes Aunts 'Associate Research Assistants.'
  2. AnnieO

    AnnieO Shooting from the Hip

    Dads, too.
  3. ML

    ML Guest

    That is so cool.
  4. KTMom91

    KTMom91 Well-Known Member

    I love this!
  5. Hound dog

    Hound dog Nana's are Beautiful

    I used to put Domestic Engineer under occupation. LOL

    Love this!.
  6. TeDo

    TeDo Guest

    Thanks a bunch for that! I definitely have new respect for MYSELF. LOL