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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 691891" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>SWOT. That was a brilliant post. </p><p></p><p>If I may ask, how did you learn this kind of simple assertiveness? What it seems like is that you quietly take the space you deserve, of a mature, strong, deserving person, with rights and a voice. You do not assume otherwise, or expect (or brook) a negative response.I love this.</p><p>M has resentments because he does way more of the stuff around the house although I do all of the cooking and shopping and bill-paying. And now he is driving me back and forth to work, on the best of days this is 3 hours of extra work. </p><p>Yes.</p><p>It is not so simple if you are geared to take things personally, judge yourself as responsible and blame yourself if anything happens which you cannot control!</p><p></p><p>But knowing and accepting is the first step to change. Thank you SWOT.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 691891, member: 18958"] SWOT. That was a brilliant post. If I may ask, how did you learn this kind of simple assertiveness? What it seems like is that you quietly take the space you deserve, of a mature, strong, deserving person, with rights and a voice. You do not assume otherwise, or expect (or brook) a negative response.I love this. M has resentments because he does way more of the stuff around the house although I do all of the cooking and shopping and bill-paying. And now he is driving me back and forth to work, on the best of days this is 3 hours of extra work. Yes. It is not so simple if you are geared to take things personally, judge yourself as responsible and blame yourself if anything happens which you cannot control! But knowing and accepting is the first step to change. Thank you SWOT. [/QUOTE]
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