I don't do this a lot----in fact I hate to whine---but.... PCson is going through a divorce. Wife cheated. He filed. She. is. an. idiot. and is making his life miserable with her demands. He is requiring she stay in the town they now live in. He is asking for joint custody. He wants to be an active father. Children are attending one of the best schools in the state. They live in an urban area with lots to do for the kids. She wants to move back to her podunk town with schools rated near the bottom of the state (which is rated on the bottom in the nation). She thinks its unfair that she is going to have to go to work since she has been a stay at home mom. If she moved back home she and the kids could move in with her parents and she wouldn't have to work full time. She thinks she should give half his pay because she hasn't worked during the marriage---instead she had the luxury of having a husband who worked his butt off and sacrificed so she could be at home. He has been paying all her bills. She started work this week and he handed her her bills (student loan, car payment, cc) she says she should have to pay for the 2 months she is allowed to live in the house and "get on her feet" but expects him to foot the daycare bill on top of everything. He can't reason with her---and it is driving him insane. She actually said she doesn't know why they can't just have a regular divorce where the husband leaves the house and pays for everything----IDIOT!!!