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Just beginning to accept the reality that I was played
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 746091" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am sorry that you have to go through this. It is horrible. Do NOT assume that your daughter is clean just because she says so and/or is pregnant. OB's don't check for drugs regularly. My ex sister in law told us that she had not been clean/sober for longer than 4 months at a time in the last 2 decades or more. My niece is 14, so that means her mother used during pregnancy. It completely disgusted me because she was a nurse (RN) who flat out KNEW what the drugs and booze would do to the baby she claimed to love more than anything. </p><p></p><p>Stop giving daughter money or anything else. It won't change her behavior, or get her to let you see your granddau. ANY time you think she could be drugging, tell CPS in her area. Do it for your granddau. I have watched my own parents give ex-sister in law money over and over to pay for bills. If my parents let the lights be turned off or let the rent go unpaid, they could have gotten custody of niece (which they actively wanted because ex-sister in law is very unstable in so many ways). </p><p></p><p>This is a fault in your daughter's character and not your fault.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 746091, member: 1233"] I am sorry that you have to go through this. It is horrible. Do NOT assume that your daughter is clean just because she says so and/or is pregnant. OB's don't check for drugs regularly. My ex sister in law told us that she had not been clean/sober for longer than 4 months at a time in the last 2 decades or more. My niece is 14, so that means her mother used during pregnancy. It completely disgusted me because she was a nurse (RN) who flat out KNEW what the drugs and booze would do to the baby she claimed to love more than anything. Stop giving daughter money or anything else. It won't change her behavior, or get her to let you see your granddau. ANY time you think she could be drugging, tell CPS in her area. Do it for your granddau. I have watched my own parents give ex-sister in law money over and over to pay for bills. If my parents let the lights be turned off or let the rent go unpaid, they could have gotten custody of niece (which they actively wanted because ex-sister in law is very unstable in so many ways). This is a fault in your daughter's character and not your fault. [/QUOTE]
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