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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 744910" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Nothing happened. </p><p></p><p>He may be high or craving drugs or just, if clean, maybe he is still suffering brain detox or maybe he isnt a nice person. Because you did nothing to tick hom off and he was hot for a fight, maybe to try to get something from you.</p><p></p><p>I would not have even spoken to him. I tend to just leave. If he said "You just dont want to listen" I may have said "I wont either until y</p><p>ou talk with more respect. I have to go now."</p><p></p><p>Dont try to figure out no logic. And try to stand up for yourself because in my opinion it hurts you and doesnt teach him anything to allow him to be abusive. That includes his deliberately not putting clean dishes in the washer.</p><p></p><p>He is lucky he has you as a mom and not me because he would be either doing as I asked or walking the streets. I have one adult child who CAN mouth off. If he does, I wont finish talking to him and wait three days before I will tey again and he better be calm and respectful.</p><p></p><p>He lives five hours away and fortunately has a great job because he couldnt stay in my house long term. I believe in my house/my rules. And i matter too so talk to ke tje way I talk to you....with resect. Or we dont have to talk.</p><p></p><p>You did nothing wrong. Honestly. Its him.</p><p></p><p>Love and light!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 744910, member: 1550"] Nothing happened. He may be high or craving drugs or just, if clean, maybe he is still suffering brain detox or maybe he isnt a nice person. Because you did nothing to tick hom off and he was hot for a fight, maybe to try to get something from you. I would not have even spoken to him. I tend to just leave. If he said "You just dont want to listen" I may have said "I wont either until y ou talk with more respect. I have to go now." Dont try to figure out no logic. And try to stand up for yourself because in my opinion it hurts you and doesnt teach him anything to allow him to be abusive. That includes his deliberately not putting clean dishes in the washer. He is lucky he has you as a mom and not me because he would be either doing as I asked or walking the streets. I have one adult child who CAN mouth off. If he does, I wont finish talking to him and wait three days before I will tey again and he better be calm and respectful. He lives five hours away and fortunately has a great job because he couldnt stay in my house long term. I believe in my house/my rules. And i matter too so talk to ke tje way I talk to you....with resect. Or we dont have to talk. You did nothing wrong. Honestly. Its him. Love and light! [/QUOTE]
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