Just confuse me a little bit more!!

Discussion in 'General Parenting' started by Valentine, Jan 27, 2010.

  1. Valentine

    Valentine New Member

    Now difficult child is telling them he wants to come home... But I know once he gets here he will wanna go back.. Still trying to get ahold of his therapist too.
  2. DammitJanet

    DammitJanet Well-Known Member Staff Member

    They all want to come home once they are out of the home. They all say whatever they think you want to hear. Its manipulation. Dont fall for it.

    Obviously, things arent as fun there as he thought it was going to be and they want him to work on his issues so now he wants to come home. That is completely normal. Allow him to stay so the doctors can do their work. It is best for him.
  3. Andy

    Andy Active Member

    I know this is tugging at your heart. However, your mommy gut is telling you he wants to come home for the wrong reason. The grass is always greener in the field you don't sleep in.

    Keep reminding him that it is best for him to stay where he is. There is still things to learn and understand. He is never going to be satisfied where he is until he starts to face his challenges.