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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 717097" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>What he's not understanding is that it's not HIS home. </p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry you had to come home to that. I also understand your not wanting to call the police and by not, you granted him a favor which I'm sure he does not see nor appreciate.</p><p>Now you know that a locked door will not keep him out. You really might want to consider some kind of home security system. </p><p>You still might want to consider telling the police. Not to press charges but to have it on record.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Here's the thing, he has his family. You have tried time and time again to help him and he rejects it.</p><p>What he is really saying here is that he wants to continue to manipulate you so that you will do what he wants. You have nothing to feel bad about, I repeat, you have NOTHING to feel bad about.</p><p></p><p>There is help for your son but he is choosing to not accept it. He could take medication but he doesn't want to so he is self medicating. These are his choices and he will have to live with the consequences of his actions.</p><p></p><p>Your safety and peace of mind needs to come first. You need to do what you have to so that you can feel safe in YOUR home.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you.....................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 717097, member: 18516"] What he's not understanding is that it's not HIS home. I'm so sorry you had to come home to that. I also understand your not wanting to call the police and by not, you granted him a favor which I'm sure he does not see nor appreciate. Now you know that a locked door will not keep him out. You really might want to consider some kind of home security system. You still might want to consider telling the police. Not to press charges but to have it on record. Here's the thing, he has his family. You have tried time and time again to help him and he rejects it. What he is really saying here is that he wants to continue to manipulate you so that you will do what he wants. You have nothing to feel bad about, I repeat, you have NOTHING to feel bad about. There is help for your son but he is choosing to not accept it. He could take medication but he doesn't want to so he is self medicating. These are his choices and he will have to live with the consequences of his actions. Your safety and peace of mind needs to come first. You need to do what you have to so that you can feel safe in YOUR home. ((HUGS)) to you..................... [/QUOTE]
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