I am very new to this site but I am finding helpful just to talk to other people with similar problems. I just voluntarily had my 8 yr old daughter hospitalized on Wed Jan 26. It was the hardest thing I think I have ever done as a parent. I am still anxious and miss her. I am glad she is getting help but still worried how she will be when she gets home. She has problems with depression, anxiety and violent anger management issues. She was diagnosis with ODD when she was about 5. Recently her behavior has been getting worse and she even tries to hurt herself. I am having surgery on monday the 31st and worry about her hitting on me when i get home. I also fear for her and her younger sisters. They just started her on Abilify Thursday night. I talked with the family therapist today and they are saying you shows major depression but for unknown reasons. I just want her to be healthy and happy. They keep asking me what questions I have and I am so overwhelmed I don't know what to say. Any advice would be great.